What is foreplay?
Foreplay is anything before the act of intercourse that gets you excited. It takes
women a lot longer than men to get aroused. A woman needs a lot of kissing,
caressing, and caring words. Wherever you begin, make sure it’s comfortable and
private. You want no interruptions.
How important is kissing?
Kissing is a great form of foreplay. It can also be wildly exciting in itself. Start your
kissing slow and gentle, but be firm and authoritative. Don’t immediately open your
mouth. Focus on using your lips to kiss her cheeks, her chin, and her neck. Then
you can draw her lower lip into your mouth and run the tip of your tongue across
her teeth. Caress her while you are kissing her. When you start to use your
tongue, try to keep your tongue slightly pointed and play little games with her
tongue. Try focusing on teasing her a little. One thing you also might want to do is
explore her gum line a little. That area can be very sensitive.
What should I do with my hands when I am kissing her?
What you do with your hands is very important in arousing a woman. As the
kissing goes on fondle her through her clothes. Gently caress her breasts and
locate her nipples through the garment. While you are kissing her lips and
massaging her breasts, begin to unbutton, unzip, or slip down the top of her
garment. As you are pulling her garment down, kiss along her sensual areas. The
key to undressing is to take a lot of time with each item of clothing and as you
remove each part of her clothing show special attention to that area.
Where are her erogenous (sensitive) zones?
Each body part is an erogenous zone, so treat it accordingly. Take it portion by
portion. Rushing shows little confidence, so take it slow. Remember the best takes
time. Pay special attention to these sensitive areas:
Toes, lips, lower back, gums, teeth, tongue, nipples, earlobes, eyebrows, buttocks,
ears, temple, inside of thigh.
Why is teasing so important?
A woman wants self control in a lover. Bringing her slowly to what she wants
sexually is the key to all female pleasure. Be patient and wait until she is delirious,
craving and begging for you. Women love it when a man takes time to get to the
point and just simply delays for a while. Until a woman’s desire is intense, she
enjoys being touched non-directly. For example, before a man should touch her
breasts, he first should circle them for a while, getting closer and closer. Instead of
just touching a woman in her most sensitive places, a woman wants to be teased
or led up to the place where she is longing to be touched. You need to remember
and focus on delaying direct stimulation to increase a woman’s pleasure. You
should never touch a woman between the legs until you are sure she is wet. A
skillful male will first stimulate a woman’s least sensitive areas first, defined above.
The best way to tease a woman is by giving a little and then backing up to start
over again.
What happens physically to a woman when she gets sexually aroused?
When you first excite a woman, her body goes through a number of physical
changes.The most noticeable change you go through is the erection of your penis.
A woman’s vulva becomes congested with blood, just as your penis does. The
labia majora swell and this causes them to draw back, exposing the inner lips and
the entrance to the vagina. The inner lips may swell and change to a darker pink.
The clitoris may also swell and stiffen. Another noticeable effect of sexual
excitement in a woman’s body is the secretion of lubricant by glands inside the
walls of the vagina. This prepares the vagina for the insertion of your erect
penis.Your partner’s nipples will may stiffen and her breasts can swell. Her vagina
will relax and deepen to give your penis plenty of room.
How can I tell if she’s having an orgasm?
She will first feel her orgasm in the lower section of her vagina. The vagina will
begin to contract rapidly and her anal muscles will contract involuntarily. Her
urethra muscles go through the same spasm. During your partner’s orgasm, her
nipples will remain erect. Immediately after orgasm, her vagina will become very
juicy with lubricant. The nipples gradually soften and the vulva loses its swelling.
